To all the single ladies and the people who love them, I share an important truth: men and women are different when it comes to love. Much wisdom follows from this, such as - if you want to marry him, do not move in with him for love or money or any reason. It can’t help you reach your goal, but it sure can block it. Wait at least till you’re engaged, the wedding deposit paid and any pre-nup signed. Dear Ones, this is about saving you from pain, about getting what you want, and about living firmly and simultaneously in your relationship and in your true worth. A good man who loves you will understand you wanting to maintain some independence before marriage. Now, as an educated ex lawyer with progressive tendencies turned healer, accepting the many impacts of relational gender differences went against my grain… but I learned the long and hard way in my own quest for devoted love. I wish for you much lighter lessons. I’m Rev Doc Lisa, IntegralHealer and I’m with you, on the journey.